Sunday, 11 September 2016

: Frame it Right

unfinished chapter: Frame it Right: Dear Friends, Words are very powerful. They can construct or ruin situations. One needs to be very watchful  while communicating . But u...

Frame it Right

Dear Friends,
Words are very powerful. They can construct or ruin situations. One needs to be very watchful  while communicating . But unfortunately ,the most careless used are these ‘Words’ which can break hearts,  hurt feelings, excite sentiments and cause a whole lot of anxiety. This anecdote from my life, is an example of  the same.
Meena Mishra.
Frame It Right
It was a regular day. Meena went to school as usual. But things were completely different when she returned home. The first astonishment was to find the door ajar. There was a frightening silence in the house. Mother was sobbing .Father was laying on the bed with his hands covering his face trying to hide his feelings. Something had gone terribly wrong. But what? Mother handed over the telegram that read ‘Mother died come soon’, to her.
Those were the days when telephone was not a common place miracle. Receiving a telegram meant that the incident must have taken place three days back. Meena’s father was the eldest son of the family. If there was one person his mother could rely upon, it was him. He was not by his mother’s side when she breathed her last. It was saddening beyond belief.
                         It was an unexpected blow for the family. They had to set on a journey to their native place, Pindaruch , a small village tucked in the heart of Mithila (the birthplace of legendary Sita). Her siblings  were fed. Rest of the cooked meal, milk and vegetables were given to the immediate neighbour. There was no need of  withdrawing money  from the bank  as the neighbours had already pooled in cash that they had at home . Meena always wondered how did all her neighbours manage to throng in and offer help in times of difficulty They had already arranged for  a car and a driver for her family  as waiting for the bus would have meant wastage of time. Entire neighbourhood was sad. They knew how attached her father was to her granny. Even she loved her granny very much. Meena’s mother packed some faded colour sarees and a handful of simple dresses for the other family members. In a gloomy silence the family set out on a journey.     

After a long and tiring journey, they reached their native place. The news of their arrival in a car (What a luxury it was!) had spread in the entire village. Following the tradition, some family members were standing in the portico , with mugs filled with water which would be used for washing their feet before entering the Pooja Room, where they had to bow before the deity before entering the house.
                The car reached the portico. Meena’s father was the first one to alight. And to everybody’s surprise, the person standing there with a mug filled with water, was none other than her granny. The expression that she observed on her father’s face was not easy to explain. It was a mixed feeling of joy, wonder, amazement, bewilderment   and surprise. He hugged his mother and burst into tears. Her granny was perplexed, quite unaware of the situation and didn’t know how to react.

Later on the family was informed that the sender of the telegram who was her father’s cousin, had lost his mother. Only if the telegram would have been framed as ‘My mother died, come soon’, this entire episode of confusion and slipup could have been avoided.

unfinished chapter: My Chemistry Teacher

unfinished chapter: My Chemistry Teacher: My Chemistry Teacher It was an  archetypal morning. Yes, Board results for 12 th standard CBSE were to be declared. Rahul was quite n...

My Chemistry Teacher

My Chemistry Teacher

It was an  archetypal morning. Yes, Board results for 12th standard CBSE were to be declared. Rahul was quite nervous about it. Even though he was always considered to be a lazy child, unlike his true self, he had put in lots of efforts for this exam. “I wish I make at least myself proud ,” he thought while refreshing the site .
 “Are the results declared?” asked his mother. “No  Maa. The site is crashing again and again.” He answered anxiously. He closed his eyes for a while ,chanted Gayatri Mantra ,opened his eyes and refreshed the page. The moment of surprise was just about to tap at his door .**CBSE 2016 Board Results**.He opened the link and entered his seat number. The marksheet was flashing on the screen. He could not believe his luck.
He had scored 95%. He checked his seat number and name again but the score didn’t change. He had scored highest in Chemistry. Good Lord! This was out of the world feeling. Has he really??? He was jumping with joy. Hugging his mother tightly he actually cried. “Thank you so much Anjana ma’am.I love you”. He shouted at the top of his voice. He knew she wouldn’t hear it but he wanted to express his happiness and he did.
His teacher had always told him that if she was making them slog, it was for their benefit. If she had been strict with them it was for making them disciplined. But did he realise it then? No, he didn’t. His mind drifted back into the memory lane......
“This is not Markonikov rule. What’s wrong with you Rahul?” she screamed. Rahul was physically present but mentally absent. He was trying to recall his past experience with his Chemistry teacher. Anjana ma’am was such a partial teacher. Whoever would be responsible for the mischief but finally the one to  be punished was Rahul. If someone would giggle, she would throw dagger on him. If someone would produce a weird sound to distract her, she would directly walk to his desk .She was the most irritating teacher in the school. She would get on his nerves.
He still remembered the day when Science practical exams were going on. Somebody had flicked off a beaker from the lab. When she got to know about that she called him out of the lab and asked him to return the beaker .He was at the end of his tether. He was mad with rage. He felt like screaming out loudly but then he remembered what his mother had said. “I don’t want any complain from the school , Rahul”. Why does CBSE keep 11th and 12th grade students in school? Why can’t they keep separate Junior Colleges? At least they will have different teachers.
He was back from his trance when he heard the shrill cry of Anjana Ma’am. “I am waiting for your answer,Rahul”. “But what was the  question ma’am?”,he asked seriously. “What is Markonikov rule?” she asked sarcastically. “The person having power, dominates”, he mumbled. “Speak loudly I can’t hear”, she demanded. “The product with more branches dominate”, he said loud enough to be heard. She asked him to take his seat. He simply hated the way she made the students slog and learn.

But ,today while looking at his computer screen he realised that if she would not have been strict with him he would not have scored the highest in the subject he hated the most, ‘ Chemistry’ . He understood the fact that even though he didn’t like the way it was taught, her intentions were always good. “Thanks a ton Anjana ma’am.I will always be indebted to you”, he shouted with joy. 

unfinished chapter: Who's He?

unfinished chapter: Who's He?: Dear Friends, Do you know how your arrogant, egotistical and   big-headed boss   behaves in his personal life?? Want to know? Loads of...

Who's He?

Dear Friends,
Do you know how your arrogant, egotistical and   big-headed boss   behaves in his personal life?? Want to know?
Loads of love,
Meena Mishra
   
Who’s He????
I couldn’t deem what I was  seeing. I was approaching towards my childhood friend after so many years. Unconventionally beautiful  ,Rosa, my comrade. She wasn’t tall, slim,  fair and eye-catching like other girls in the party. Instead she was short, plump, dark but fine-looking. I loved her bright eyes, innocent smile and white teeth peeping through her dark lips when she would laugh. Her laugh was different. Loud,  vibrating, devilish laugh.
 In school she was famous as one who could be heard before coming into view. She was the most upbeat and care-free girl of our class. Whenever friends would try to tease her over her height, built, complexion or laughter, she would not only take it lightly   but also participate in it. I had a strong predilection for her since the time  she was my class-mate in Primary school, in New Delhi. After my father got transferred to Mumbai, we lost touch.
                     She literally ran towards me and gave me a tight hug. Oh! I could actually feel the warmth. She was gleaming with glee and so was I. “So, you work here?” she inquired. Before I could answer her she said, “How foolish of me!!” “This is an official party and only those who work  here are invited. I have been transferred to this office just one month back. So, didn’t get a chance to see you. Anyways,  which department?” As usual before I could utter a word, she pronounced , “Just forget it. How does it matter?” She dragged me towards a chair and said, “Good to see you after so many years. I was dying to talk to a buddy. This is a new city, new office, new people and you know quite well that I   don’t share with the people until and unless they are too close to me.”  I had to strain my ears to listen to her. “How are your parents doing? How are our other friends?” I asked. “They are perfectly fine”, she replied in a jiffy as if I  was wasting her time .
“I want to share something about my new boss with you”, she said.  I took it as a hint of lending her my ears with my mouth shut. “Ok , shoot ”,I said. And she began. “This boss of mine, he is the most ill-mannered person I have ever seen. Even if I am late for five minutes he gets angry. He keeps me on my toes throughout the day. My whole energy gets drained meeting the dead-lines given by him. I have seen him smiling only when the clients are there, otherwise he has such a sullen face as if he needs to pay for smiling. He is arrogant , proud, haughty, over-confident and self-importance personified. Nobody in this office wants to work for him that’s why they had to get a secretary from New Delhi office. I don’t know how to deal with him.” She was fuming with annoyance while speaking. After venting out her anger , she looked serene .I offered her a drink.

Now she was in a mood of sharing about our common friends. All of a sudden she realised that the entire talking has been done by her and that she should give me a chance to speak. So she allowed me to talk about me. “Once we shifted to Mumbai, I made new friends in my new school. I completed my LLB and became a lawyer. I fell in love with the hottest and sexiest boy of my batch . So many girls craved for him but he was mine. Such an adorable boy friend he was! after we got settled in our career, we had a word with our parents and got married.”I compiled my story in a nutshell. She had a smirk on her face. “So how’s he now?” she asked. “Did he change after marriage or he is still the same?” I had to admit that he has changed. “He has become more responsible, loving, caring and understanding. Even though he is extremely  busy in his profession he is just a phone call away, whenever I need him. He is a warm, affectionate ,devoted and amorous husband. I am blessed to have him in my life. Not only that , he takes care of my parents more than I do.” She was in high spirits to know about me and congratulated me.

I told her I was getting late and before we parted I asked her casually, “What is the name of your boss?” She whispered into my ears, “Mr. J. K. Mishra” . I gave her  the naughtiest smile of mine and bid her good bye.

unfinished chapter: Candid story-Rejected

unfinished chapter: Candid story-Rejected: Dear Friends, Do you know why do employees tell a lie for taking leave? This story will give you an insight into the problem. I am sur...